Hey everyone whatās up! Thank you so much for being here. As you know, every single week I share a new video on copywriting, marketing, business and more⦠so if you haven’t done so yet be sure to hit subscribe over on my Youtube Channel so you donāt miss any future videos from meā¦
But heads up this post is a little different from my usual and takes a bit of a personal twist. I want to talk about something that is very very real for business owners ā and something that Iām battling myself right now ā entrepreneurial burnout.
Listen⦠No matter the size of your business, the struggle to scale is REAL. Whether youāre just starting out or you have a team supporting you, the hardest thing about being an entrepreneur is the lack of boundaries in your business. Unlike a regular 9-5 job, where you can clock out at the end of the day, disconnect, and take the weekends off… When youāre an entrepreneur there are no limits to the work you could be doing. So the dark side about being able to work anytime from anywhere, is that we often work all the time, from everywhere. And if youāre trying to start or grow your business, the blurred lines between life and entrepreneurship can become very, very hard to navigate.
So, Iād thought Iād share a bit about what I’ve been going through lately because I’m going to be honest. I am burnt out. So as I was sitting here trying to figure out what the topic for my video would be this week, the thing that felt the most real and authentic to talk to you about was the fact that I am creatively tapped out.
And I bet a few of you can relate. So if you feel me, comment below and let me know if youāve ever been here and the number one thing you do to recharge your batteries!
You know, I find so ironic that when weāre physically stressed out, or injured, or sick, giving ourselves time to rest and heal is so obvious. But when it comes to our mental health, it’s so easy to ignore it, we put our heads down we push through, we carry on and we hope it will all get better.
So yes everyone likes to talk about the āHustleā and the āGrindā but what about the rest and the naps and the self-love that we need as entrepreneurs? Right now, Iām reminding myself of the importance of all of these thingsā¦
Iāve been so hell-bent on growing my Copywriting Agency, the Copy Posse launching and growing my YouTube Channel, at the same time running a high level mastermind and scaling another partner business past 8-figures that Iāve completely lost sight of what I NEED to thrive alongside my business⦠and Iām not talking financially thrive. Iām talking about spiritually, emotionally, energetically thrive. So I can ride that wave and not be drowned by it.
So I want to take some time right now to share the steps that Iām taking to return to myself to feel happier, healthier and more creatively fuelled. Now theses lessons are crazy valuable and trust me, I am telling them to myself as much as I am telling them to you. Because letās be honest all the business strategies and copywriting tactics that Iāll share with you in the coming weeks wonāt matter without taking care of yourself first.
So the first lesson Iām here to remind you of is toā¦
Lesson #1: Let Go
Hereās the thing. You can not do it all. You canāt. And so much of the time, we take on way more than we need to. Out of obligation to our business, to our clients, to our teams, to ourselves, right? Itās like weāre afraid if we stop doing something, everything will fall apart and the money will stop coming in.
But I bet if you look at your day-to-day tasks, 80% of what you do could be dropped and very little or nothing would change.
So ask yourself what can I let go of? What am I holding onto? Where am I over-committing? What can I delegate? And who can help me?
80% of your creative energy should be spent on what brings you more happiness and of course revenue. Weāre all in business for a reason.
But truly everything else should be let go.
Lesson #2: Rest & Nourish Yourself
I am here to say that itās OK to rest. It is OK to put yourself first. In fact, itās necessary for the longevity of your business, for your relationships for your health, for everything.
So have you ever found yourself in this cycle⦠where youāre stressed out so you cancel your workouts, you eat like crap, you get very little sleep, you drink more than normal⦠Right, the glass of wine or beer at the end of a work day? Necessary sometimes⦠But then you feel more like crap, which impacts your business and your creativity⦠and then youāre more stressed out. Itās this vicious cycle that can be really hard to get out of.
And if I find myself in this never-ending loop I know Iām majorly out of alignment and need to return to centre asap.
Itās easy to tell yourself āI donāt have timeā when it comes to things like going to the gym or making that healthy meal⦠but I challenge you to shift the āI donāt have timeā in your mind to āI just havenāt made this a priority in my lifeā. And once you do that everything really comes into perspective. If youāre not prioritizing your health, itās time to change it. So put āyou timeā at the top of your to-do list every single day and I promise things in your business will improve.
Ok so that brings me to…
Lesson #3: Re-establish Boundaries
Listen⦠Itās ok to say sorry, but not right now. Itās ok to be UNREACHABLE for a day. Remember before cell phones when if someone wanted to get a hold of you theyād have to email you and then wait for a response. Sometimes for a whole day? Or they would call your landline and have to leave a message on your answering machine?!
Remember, you train people how to treat you. So if youāre not establishing healthy boundaries with your team, clients or partners, they wonāt even know when theyāre asking for too much. So set REASONABLE boundaries that you communicate and honor them religiously.
One of my favorite quotes from Brendon Burchard is and iām slightly paraphrasing here is āYour inbox is nothing but a convenient organization system for other peopleās intentions FOR you.ā Crazy right?! Itās so true, Your inbox is nothing but a list of what other people want from you on any given day. And we often wake up first thing in the morning, right? I know Iām so guilty of this. And we look at our inbox!! And, we start at the top and answer those emails first which means means weāre training people to email us early and frequently in order to get their tasks accomplished. Imagine if you could send yourself an email that said āgo make yourself a healthy lunchā haha⦠well, maybe you would actually do it. And maybe you should!
But my advice is to block off at least an hour in the morning BEFORE you check your inbox to spend some time doing what you need to do for you first, before diving into other peoples to-do list FOR you.
Ok lastly, that brings me to lesson #4⦠And this one is my favourite
Lesson #4: Plan An Adventure
So itās actually proven that experiences, not things bring people more happiness. So when studying what truly makes people happy, Cornell prof, Thomas Gilovich found that experiences like concerts, and trips, and going to the movies, etc. trump material purchases because the good vibes from buying experiences start way before you swipe your credit card and linger long after.
So of course while āliving in the momentā is probably the best way to achieve enduring happiness, itās not all that plausible 100% of the time. So, the next best thing is living in anticipation of an experience ā or some moment in the future that youāre looking forward to.
So, while youāre working your buns off – I encourage you to ask yourself what youāre working so darn hard for. If itās for that new car, or that new watch, you may want to reconsider another goal that involves a memorable experience. Or better yet, get offline right after you watch this video and go on an adventure!
So Iām actually leaving to Europe, I kid you not, in 90 minutes⦠Iām so last minute guys, classic entrepreneur. And while it does stress me out a little bit that Iām leaving while Iām at my busiest, I know itās exactly what I should be doing because itās WHY I started my business.
So guys, unplug, get outside, take some deep breaths and go on an adventure! And comment below and let me know what your next adventure is. And stay tuned because my next few posts will be coming to you from Europe!! Or maybe not, maybe I will actually take a week off⦠But either way you will hear from me soon.
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Till then, Iām Alex. Ciao for now.